Is this the way it has to end? I avoid you yet i miss you. This, when love and hate collide

So then is having too many friends wrong anyway?

To think of it, nope not really. But it's well not so good when you rather concentrate on making more friends then spend time with those who's been there for you all along.

It'd be even worse if you have 2 faces. In front of them, you're more then pleased to hang out with them but in your heart you're using them as 'substitutes' as your other friends are busy.

I guess it's alright to have a big circle of friends. Just make sure you choose the right friends to put them first on your list and spend more time with them rather then concentrating on making more friends. So what if you're high-profiled when the truth is that you know everyone only from the outward and not their inner self.Saying Hi and Bye to everyone when the truth is you dont know much about that person. Then in the end, who's gonna be there to share your burdens? You cant expect your Hi Bye friends whom dont know much about you to willingly share your problems.

It's no point making loads of friends, only to realise that they are people who just walk in and out of your life. And when everyone walks out, will your true friends still be there to stay or to walk in?

Well, that's just my opinion.

Personally i and most women would feel that best friends are the person you share everything with. Her of his phone number is on speed dial in case of a crisis. She always brings the ice cream when you are depressed. Best friends are always supportive, no matter what.

However most men i guess would care less about how many friends they have. Many consider three or four of their male friends as "best" friends

Acquaintances are the people you only talk to on occasion. You wave at them while walking across campus or sit next to them during class. Most of the time, you don't even know their last name.Basically, these people are around for convenience. You may not even like them all that much.

Good friends are everywhere. It is quite possible to have an unlimited number of good friends. These are the kind of people you want to hang out with on a regular basis. They are not the kind of people you spill your deepest, darkest secrets to, but they make you feel better about yourself.

So dont tell me everyone's your bestfriend and everyone will be there to share your problems and keep your secrets. Then whats a secret when quite a lot of friends know it and perhaps why go to that friend for help when everyone else knows your problem and would help too. Who in the end would have a special place in you? The whole world?

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If there's one thing I've learnt is that people change and it's quite possible to change in just one day. Before you know it, you find yourself facing a different person. So dont take things for granted. If that one person makes you feel special, the least you could do is say thank you.

If you've wanted to tell someone you love him or her. Say it before it's too late and you find yourself sitting in a corner wondering where's 'who' that you know. If you've been touched dont hide it, or else that one person would think that it meant nothing to you and giving up is easy at times. Once he or she gives up, it'll be too late for you to say thank you.

or scream your lungs out with your friends then go HO HO HO

and HO HO more! (:

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